If you're here, it's likely because you're living a life you did not choose. Maybe something broke. Maybe someone died. Maybe the future you planned disappeared overnight.
And now you're trying to find your footing in a story you never asked to live. You're trying to show up—brave and weary, tender and tired—but your faith feels fractured.
Does this sound familiar?
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You're exhausted from all the pretending.
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Your faith feels foggy, like it's fading.
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You've tried it all and you're still in the dark.
Living lament is a grief companion. It will help you...
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Name your sorrow without shame, silence, or spiritual bypassing
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Engage with God honestly (even in your anger or numbness)
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Understand what lament really is
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Learn gentle rhythms to process pain without rushing your healing
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Feel less alone in your emotions, your exhaustion, and your spiritual struggle
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Anchor yourself in Scripture that doesn’t ignore suffering but walks you through it
"This course has brought me so much breakthrough. I was taught to bury my grief and that if I was still hurting, I wasn't believing enough. Living Lament taught me how to bring my pain honestly before God."
-Jenn
TELL ME MORE
JENNIFER messaged me this:
"You created a space that helped me stop fighting my grief and start holding it with God. I don’t feel rushed or broken anymore. I feel seen."
JESSICA sent me this:
"The reflections, the Scripture, the gentleness of this course...every piece met me right where I was. I was numb when I started it, but now I'm hopeful."
"This course was like a sweet friend during a dark time. I kept coming back to it over and over. Bethany really helped me learn how to lament in a way that feels honest and true. "
SARAH, living lament COURSE STUDENT
Meet your certified coach
Hi, I'm Bethany.
I ushered my late husband to heaven in our living room on a Thursday. I had five children under the age of 11, and cancer was a cruel plot twist we didn't see coming.
I remember kneeling by his body, wondering how I'd ever make it—if I’d ever wake up and not feel consumed by the soul-crushing ache of what I’d lost.
Five years later, I’m a certified grief coach, speaker, and guide for grievers who feel stuck, overwhelmed, and unsure of how to take the next step. More than ever, I believe that one of the greatest gifts we can give ourselves is community with other grieving humans.
My coaching is rooted in what I’ve learned through my own journey:
✨ That grief doesn’t have to paralyze you.
✨ That hope and heartache can coexist.
✨ And that even in the darkest seasons, there’s still a way forward.
I created the Living Lament Course to help people like you stop stuffing the sorrow and start walking with it: honestly, gentle, and with God still in the center.
It's an honor to journey together.🖤
